This post originally appeared on The Huffington Post.
According to the Pew Research Center's recent Parenting in America study, only 39% of dads say they do a "very good job as a parent." That's compared to 51% of moms who say the same about their own parenting.
Why, then, do 6 in 10 dads lack confidence in their parenting? One reason might be dads' lack of confidence in how well prepared they are to be dads. National Fatherhood Initiative's Pop's Culture study -- the most comprehensive national study ever conducted on dads' attitudes on fathering -- found that only 54% of dads "agreed" and 22% "strongly agreed" that they were adequately prepared for fatherhood when their first child was born.
Nevertheless, dads have the ability to learn to be better dads. Unfortunately, they lack the kind of help-seeking behavior of moms when it comes to parenting. In a way, dads are often their worst enemy when it comes to seeking advice and guidance on how to be a good father.
As the Pew report on the Parenting in America study states:
Mothers... have more extensive support networks that they rely on for advice about parenting. They're much more likely than fathers to turn to family members and friends and to take advantage of parenting resources such as books, magazines and online sources. For example, while 43% of moms say they turn to parenting websites, books or magazines at least sometimes for parenting advice, about a quarter (23%) of dads do the same. And moms are more than twice as likely as dads to say they at least occasionally turn to online message boards, listservs or social media for advice on parenting (21% vs. 9%).
So it's no surprise that there are a plethora of websites and other online sources dedicated to helping moms. Moreover, most "parenting" sources are designed for moms. There is also an army of "mommy bloggers" who dispense advice and guidance on a massive scale. Moms have plenty of help because they want it and because it's available -- a classic example of supply meeting demand and demand driving supply.
The good news for dads is that online help is available, if they're willing to seek it. Here are the 3 best dad-dedicated websites for breadth, depth, quality and frequency of their advice and guidance on the challenges facing dads today.
- National Fatherhood Initiative: Offers free ebooks for download that dads can view on their smartphone, tablet or computer. They can subscribe to The Father Factor blog and follow the organization on Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter. Dads can also use the Fatherhood Program Locator to find organizations in their community that help dads.
- All Pro Dad: Dads can subscribe to the Play of the Day email. They can locate an All Pro Dad support group/chapter in their community. Dads can also follow the organization on Facebook and Twitter.
- National Center for Fathering: Dads can subscribe to the Today's Father's Weekly email and The Championship Fathering blog. They can complete a Fathering Profile to help them move along in their journey as a dad. Dads can also follow the organization on Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter.
Where do you turn for helpful parenting advice, tips and tools?This post originally appeared on The Huffington Post.